……….I thought I’d start a little series about the things we see as photographers “behind the scenes” that will hopefully make your wedding planning a little easier. I know there are a zillion blogs out there that will tell you the perfect place to get a stripey straw, and others that will tell you have to save money, etc. I’m not trying to get into that space. Instead, I thought I’d share our perspective on what little things can contribute to great wedding photos and can make your focus a little easier.
The first thing I’ll suggest is the “first look” session and/or getting all your formal shots done before the wedding starts. Now, I am suggesting this with the caveat that if you have always had your heart set on a traditional “the first time my guy/gal sees me is at the ceremony” vision for your wedding day, this is probably not the suggestion for you. I firmly believe that every couple really should do what feels right for them. This suggestion is really for the people who aren’t tied to an idea about this or who are on the fence about whether to do a first look.
Every couple we’ve done this with has been really happy that they went in this direction. They loved doing the first look for a lot of reasons, but the big ones were
– it took away some of the stress of the day. The couple had a moment before the ceremony started and before everyone arrived to be together and to reflect on what they were about to do. It calmed the couple’s nerves about cold feet too.
– it helped the flow of the day — because the majority of the portraits were taken before the ceremony, the couple and their bridal party were able to attend their own cocktail hour and be present for their entire day.
– the couples felt like they really had some quality time together on their wedding day. We usually schedule them to be well in advance of everything starting, so there’s some real time to just be together while we step back and capture little moments.
Anyway, it’s something to consider and by no means a requirement! What do you think? Would you do a first look?